She’d never had a child married by a serial killer before, it might be fun!

Maybe he’d be a pen pal to one in the nearest penitentiary. Husband told her if he knew a serial killer, he’d ask. I remember laughing, thinking she was making a joke but she wailed even louder. Diva told us we might as well have a serial killer marry us. See, our friend is a practicing Wicca and that’s basically devil worshipping to Diva. When she demanded to know who and we said it was a dear friend of ours (who she knew), Diva burst into tears. We already decided who would be presiding over the ceremony. Husband said it didn’t matter what she wanted or how much uncle begged her. She claimed he had been ‘begging’ her to marry us. First, her uncle HAD to preside, a very devout Catholic man who we didn’t agree religiously with on anything. But that day, husband only let her whine about the officiant. Those were our ONLY three ‘rules’ we had decided on way before we even thought to get married.ĭiva threw a fit over all 3 ‘rules’. She had planned the first 2 weddings of each of her 3 daughters (6!) weddings so she has some experience but her ideas were immediately clashing with ideas husband and I had decided on. I had no thoughts one way or the other about my wedding and honestly, some of the ideas were good.

I was sort of overwhelmed and just let her speak and plan my wedding out for over an hour. We were sitting here watching tv with no thoughts to planning or even thinking about the wedding, when she burst in unannounced with several three ring binders in her hands and dozens of bridal magazines. When husband let his side know, Diva immediately drove the half hour to our house. As it is her way or drama and tears will ensue followed by as many tantrums as she thinks it’s necessary to get her way. I’ll name her Diva if it’s not already taken. When husband announced to his family, every single person seemed to have a different idea of what was going to happen and on top of that, seemed to think their ideas would be incorporated into our ceremony or pre planning with no question.

When we announced to our families, mine was happy as you’d expect a normal family. Boy was I wrong to ever think weddings were easy. When now husband asked me to get married, I thought it be a smooth engagement and a easy wedding ceremony with us surrounded by our families. I really had no idea what weddings entailed. I was married to the love of my life in 2016. Archived How My In Laws Actions Made Me Do My Wedding EXACTLY How I Wanted

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